So far, so good.

I'm not one to make resolutions and actually stick to them. Every time I "say" I'll change and do something, it often leads to disappointment and basically acceptance of who I am. But surprisingly this year, it's been more than 1 week of January and so far, so good.

Last year I noticed I've made social media a way for me to release angst, frustration, and just a vent to rant. I also figured that by doing this, I create issues and friction. No matter what I say or how I say it, it will affect someone. That in turn creates a wall between us or others concerned whether it was intended or not. Well, I just gave up. It's tiring to vent and tiring to have to explain to the whole world who it was, when, why, etc. etc. When in fact, I just had to say something out loud. Brain- and heart-farts.

I promised to shut up with social media. If anyone wants to talk to me, they've got me to search for, they've got my email, my mobile, and pretty much no excuse to say "long time no hear-see". I want to appreciate everyday and let go of all the anger and the bitterness. I'm moving forward. Because that's what mature grown ups do. I choose Happy.